You can hold your brush any way you like as long as you’re comfortable writing with it. It’s just like life. As long as you live well, nobody can tell you that you’re doing it wrong. Young people can afford to make mistakes (maybe not in Singapore). Go ahead and live out your dreams (if your government and society allow). Love should be wild. It does not need to be cultivated. A cultivated form of love is very fake and uncomfortable. Marriage is something primitive and visceral. If you’re not thinking with the most primitive part of your brain, you won’t even consider getting married.
Chua Lam – a national treasure we lost to HK because of our narrow-mindedness.